Each time we meet a new person, we make pre-judgments about them. These judgments can be true or false. There are a lot of people who believe that the first impression is always correct. Personally, through my experience I think that the first impression it is not always correct. There are a lot of factors that have an impact clarity. In other words our first impression is made under different conditions.
One of the factors depends in which place you meet this person because it is not the same to meet a person at a party or at work. When you are at a party everybody tries to be friendly with everybody. For example if you meet a boy at a party, he can seem very friendly but when you hang out with him one day you can see that this person is very different that the boy that you met at the party. Another place that a person can be very different isat work. A person at work can be very unfriendly because he is focusing on his work. For example if you hang out with him one day he can be the best person in the world.
I never judge a person by his experiences but my father does. I had a lot of discussions with my father about this. My father is always judging people and says bad things about them and this make me very angry. For example, if a boy wear a hat this person cannot be a good person. Two years ago I went to a summer camp in Santander, Spain. I made a lot of friends and one of them was black. This boy was awesome, he was fun, a good person and if you had any problem he was always there. One day all the people from the summer camp hung out in Madrid and my father saw the black boy. When I came home he said that I cannot more see him. I told him that he is a good person and my father said to never trust the people for what they are tell you.
I think in this world everybody judge people before meet them and I don’t like this because a person can have a bad appearance but this person can be the best person in the world.
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